Help - members Part Three of my short series outside of the book: I always write back to people who ask me things - and at this point I reach for consultation questions out in order to respond publicly. Today, even my gut feeling about social Environment.
think many who are they to say that they are now suffering from cancer.
I am of the opinion that one should sift carefully: who is doing me good, who understands me, whom I can explain what and who is a plausible energy overcoat? Then you actually already know whom to say it - and should.
course, intends to regulate a lot of chemotherapy and all other thoughts, but there for a minute just to look, who to "endure" in the coming months about her is good preparation. You feel bad for months, you can do things and meet friends - was important for me but getting a pack of people I could show myself weak and trust. So I have it right which said that to me are close. People I would have worried and above all: the
me have worried, there have only found out very late. But even those who would be worried, I first left out of it. Whom one does not encounter every day, you have to say it is not slight. Change course chemotherapy and radiation therapy, the appearance and it is sometimes viewed with only funny off, and it explicitly mentioned, but still has all that time. If your in the situation "Diagnosis + preliminary investigations" are, I can only recommend to choose on the side of the German Cancer Aid some free brochures - also for the relatives - and otherwise time to the land to let go. Only you know, cry with whom you can, accept help from whom you can (and must) and who also understands that you want to hear something from the lives of others. For not only your life goes on - but also your friends and loved ones. I told my "pack" that I will share more of what they may have. Sure, we have often sat here and the cancer and the finiteness of life was about, but there is also the first day of the sponsored child, Christmas, birthdays and Zoff - This is also deflects from cancer - because the simply takes too much room on time . All in all, the, talk to your normal life can remain silent or are the right ones. All others have then first transmission break - for now it's all about you. Spend time with people, be good to you. And help yourselves and painting can also write down everything. Some attention is starting to read. Listening to your affairs. This can never be wrong.
Love, Jess
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